Sometimes a woman is a woman's worst enemy. We criticize, we are judgmental.
We are setting standards for behavior, look and dress code for others women.
We are spreading rumors and gossip and we always have something to say.
But, there is that one woman that you usually meet by coincidence,
You feel that you can trust her. You know that she will stand by your side.
The two of you become so close that you can feel her pain and you are sure that she can feel yours.
Then, you simply know that you have met your best friend for all times.
My favorite quote for two female souls that understand each other perfectly, is
"Friendship isn't about whom you know the longest. It's about who came and never left your side". This quote it represents everything I believe.
I believe that best friend is the one who will take care of you, The one that knows all of your secrets and you know all of hers.
You know that she will support you at any situation that life brings.
If my best friend calls me in 3 am telling me she killed someone and we need to take care of the body, I will be there in 10 minutes with shovels and gloves. If I call her and tell her that I need someone to talk to because I feel sad, she will be here in a second with bags of chips , ice-cream and lots of unhealthy burgers. I believe in her.
For me , she is one of the most important people in my life. Of course we fight.
Sure, we both have flaws.
Sometimes, we are angry at each other more than a week , more than a month.
But we always come back. She can really piss me off, and I bet I can do the same for her. We yell at one another and after that we hug. We are honest with each other. We learn how to forgive because we are well aware that we are best friends for some reason. It's like God predicted her to be my light in the tunnel, to guide me,to tell me where I make mistakes. Sometimes I wake up crazy. I sing , I dance and I cry at the same time. Guess who is standing next to me and support me at my "moments"?
Of course it"s her. It has always been her.
She understands my anxiety, my crazy thoughts and she heard my stories more than hundred times,but the best part of all is that she always listens carefully although she knows what am I about to say next.
I will do literally everything for my best friend.
And I know that she will do the same for me.
However, not every friendship works out. Sometimes,only one side is putting an effort to maintain the friendship alive. And after a while, it just isn't enough. Sometimes ,
you will feel betrayed,
you will have sleepless nights asking yourself what have you done wrong ? The answer is nothing. None of you did something wrong. It wasn't destined for you to be friends.
Your paths are changing.
If its real than it just never ends.
Real friendship is hard.
It demands patience and work. Sometimes its stressful ,
when your friend is experiencing pain , happiness, sadness, love, anger,
you feel the same amount of feelings through the special bond you share. She always know what you will say before you even say it.
You can predict her behavior before it happens. Tell your best friend that you love her. Be grateful that you are not walking through this life alone. You are stronger together and you both can win this.
My best friend is absolutely gorgeous. I admire her. I admire her strength. I admire the way she looks at life, the sacrifice she makes.
I am grateful for her advice and her deeds. I love the way she makes me laugh.
When I cry, she is here to wipe all of my tears.
My enemies are her enemies - not friends. She will defend me even when I don't deserve defense.
She will love me even when I don't deserve love. She will hurt anyone who is trying to hurt me.
And she will never complain.
I will forever hold my best friends hand. Nothing will ever change that. Not love , not life. There is only me and you - my sister of soul. Remember that in hard times. Remember that I am always proud of you. I am proud of your accomplishments and I am proud of who you are.
We are women, we carry burden,
we have mood swings, and sometimes we are mean.
But the greatest gift of all is to have someone that understand you.
With this post I want to honor my best friend. I want to honor everything she has done for me. Thank you for being my back up, thank you for the safe place you are giving me.
Cheers for the true friendships.
p.s I love you <3
" YOU ARE MY PERSON" - Meredith Grey, Grey's Anatomy
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